How Is Divorce Mediation Better for My Kids?
Divorce is a challenging life event for everyone involved, but it can be especially tough on children. As parents navigate their separate paths, it’s crucial to consider how the divorce process affects their kids. One option recently gaining traction is Divorce Mediation—an approach that encourages cooperation and open communication. South Jersey Divorce Solutions explores how […]
Peaceful, Private Divorce or Courtroom Battle? Choosing Collaborative Divorce
Divorce can be an emotional and stressful experience, and the path you choose can significantly impact not just your well-being, but also that of your children and your finances. For many couples, the decision often comes down to two options: the traditional courtroom battle or a more thorough out-of-court, amicable approach such as collaborative divorce. […]
When Is a Litigated Divorce Necessary in New Jersey?
Divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in a person’s life, and understanding the best path forward can be daunting. In New Jersey, as in many other states, there are different routes to divorce, primarily through litigation or negotiation. While around 97% of couples settle their differences amicably and avoid court, there are […]
Calculating New Jersey Child Support
When parents separate or divorce, one of the most critical issues to address is child support. In New Jersey, child support is a legal obligation that ensures children receive the financial support they need to thrive, regardless of their parents’ relationship status. Understanding how child support is calculated in New Jersey can help parents navigate […]
What is an Uncontested Divorce and Do I Qualify?
Divorce can be a difficult and emotional process, but it doesn’t always have to be contentious. For couples seeking a more amicable separation, an uncontested divorce may be the best option. Understanding what an uncontested divorce entails and whether you qualify for one can help you navigate this challenging time with greater clarity and ease. […]
You don’t act like a divorce attorney?
When I meet clients for the first time, they often say to me “you seem too nice to be an attorney.” Some would take that as an insult. Attorneys, especially divorce attorneys, have this stereotype of being mean, overly arrogant, aggressive – just terrible people. Don’t get me wrong, I have met those attorneys during my career. Fortunately not all of us are like that.
Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle
When I tell people I am a family lawyer, I usually hear “oh you must have seen some things” or “you must deal with a lot of fights.” True, I have seen some crazy things happen in court. I have also watched people tear their family apart in long, drawn out court battles. But I also witnessed many couples leaving my office or the courtroom without the scars of battle and the pains of going through an expensive, contested divorce. It is those situations that I feel the best about.
What If I Can’t Afford a Lawyer?
You have decided to divorce. Or maybe your spouse just hit you with he or she wants a divorce. So many things go through your mind. You are scared about the future. You are worried about your children. There are so many things to cause you concern.
Getting Divorced Without Going to Court
When you think about divorce, one of the things that scares you the most is the thought of going to court. Understandable. You appear before a judge, you swear under oath, there may be people in the courtroom who you know that do not know you are going through a divorce. You fear having to speak in public or before the judge. Worse, you are afraid of how things will turn out. You have little to no control of the outcome.
Tips for Handling the Holidays
Divorce is difficult for children, especially around the holidays. Questions come up like “will Santa know where to bring my presents” or “will I see mommy and daddy over the holidays?” Of course, it is hard for parents too. The first holiday after the divorce may be the first time you do not get to celebrate the holiday with your children. Grandparents may complain about missing the little ones, confusion sets in as to who will be where at what time, it’s a lot to deal with.